Saturday, August 20, 2005

I AM SORRY!!!!!


Life is a pile of moments.Some, we'll love to the zenith n some we'll leer even to think! The classroom La'bench is always as the center of creativity and its also a cozy place to dig the past."The past,present and future have only good for u" thats what BHAGAVADGEETA preached right? If it is so, I am gonna pick an argument with Mr.Vyas or whoever wrote that crap! because there are loads of memories ringing in my head. The memories,I remorse! I'll be an appalled stripling when a memory which has the words "I AM SORRY!!!" engrafted in it. Wohaaaa! theese set of words are the most grievous words in the entire terminology I guess. It starts from a friend droping a glass of fruit punch on your favorite T-shirt to a stranger hitting hard from behind mistaking you to his friend. In both the cases they'll come out with an angel smile, lashing their eye lids n saying "I AM SORRY!!!". Is that all? I don't know about you saint potters but I always wanted to pay back in the same notes. Infact I can't do that. Afterall it's an accident and moreover he apologized.There starts the problem.Bohooooooo! why do people apologize? Do they think it'll clean my Tee with Ariel? or it will just erase the five fingered impression on my back ,which he gave me recently? I want to bark back!!!!! Please, please I beg you people to never use the set of words "I AM SORRY!!!" Here are few of my all time favourite "SORRIES".The first will be from my lover.....my H.O.D. It started by my dad receiving a mail from the Head Of the Department of his son's institute reporting his obnoxious deportment towards a female. Knock! knock!! Here goes my door waking me from my quietus(I am staying in a room and different city 154 km frm my dad's place!). I opened the door with the bed sheet still lying on me. I was shocked to see my dad errrr...It would be better if I say that I haven't recognised him the instant I saw him as his face was flushed and was in dark red n fumes were rushin outta his ears.Adding to the fuel to the fire he found me in the wrong place at wrong time it was afternoon 12:15 pm at that time I was supposed to be banging my head to the class bench listening to the stupid Thermodynamics lecturer.Wow! I haven't even dreamt that my dad knows such offensive terms. He didnt even told me why he was scolding he kept going on and on. He took a break and I was that stupid enough to ask him why he was scolding me .Here goes another fresh round. Thank God I am not the type who takes every thing to heart. If I had, I would have comitted suicide there itself! After the laborious errr... enlightening lecture he gave me few minutes.... not to explain but to get ready. Few moments later I was shown before my H.O.D. He strangled at the sight of my dad. He said "What a surprise Mr.Rao! I was just about to mail you n you are here in person".(What the fuck is that surprise????)he continued " I am sorry! Mr.Rao we have posted the letter to a wrong person. The culprit have shared the same name of your son so we have mailed to you". Then I came to realize that why my father was scolding me like the hell. One of my classmate who happens to share my name had done some shit n the H.O.D mailed it to my dad! Fucker! that H.O.D was an enigma to me always! Later on my way to vijayawada my dad said "I am sorry!!!" .I wanted to shout "Please dont say so I want to bite you!!!!!!!!!". Like wise there are many incidents in my life n your's tooo. I hope I've bored u enough.... So,"I AM SORRY!!!".

9 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Well .., when a person says a sorry he is infact feeling sorry for his own actions. He is letting U know that he has committed some mistake(probably unknowingly) and hence asking ur pardon. Whatz the fault in it?

One saying a SORRY neither cleans Ur Tee nor sweeps out all the trouble he has caused U! BUT he is atleast feeling bad for an action of his.

Coming to the example U have quoted... do U think U wud have felt better if Ur Dad left Ur place with a sweet smile and not saying U a sorry, when he knew he was at fault? Probably NO.
Leave aside Ur case.., Ur father wud have atleast felt bad bcz he scolded U for no fault of Urs.The same applies to Ur HOD.Be contented that they are atleast feeling sorry for their actions.They are asking Ur pardon.

I know my post is a biiiiiiiiig lecture esp to U ... nd I very well knw that U hate lectures Soooo..
"I AM SORRY" ;)

11:37 AM  
Blogger laksh said...

good one dude....by the way did ur beloved HOD coveyed the much awaiting phrase "I am sorry" to u [:p]

12:42 AM  
Blogger rohini said...

i really don understand y being sorry or saying "i'm sorry" (in yer words) offend yew..may be itz true dat sayin a mere sorry wudn't suffice..buh atleast datz ther attempt of pacifyin u..i find no rong in it..

7:32 PM  
Blogger Kk said...

hey man ! Gr8 post there ! I hate the word SORRY too.
I donno Y u hate it but., I hate it coz i just know too many ppl who use it to make 4 forget their mistakes .., not coz they're feelin bad 4 wat they did. Now thats sick. SORRY is a really strong word . Very good when used rite.

7:07 PM  
Blogger Rahul said...

I don't know whether to leave the expression *lol lol* or *sob sob* here.

9:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Good article man!!!

11:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

galthi hothe hain insaano se! dint u ever do anything wrong?? surely,u must have done something! ppl r supposed to 4give each other.i dont agree with u!

7:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

itna gussa kyun??
he dint do it on purpose,did he??
maybe u cant forgive em but u cud atleast try to forget!
kya yaar??
lite le re baap!!!

3:09 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hmmm well so many times....u sae sorry whn u dun mean it...u r taught to sae sorry huh!!! but u know whn it huirts teh moost,,,whn pplle fake it....i wud sae ..mya b its not possible for me to neva sae sorry.....but one thing thats gonna saty wth me...M gonna mean it evrytime i sa it....:) thnkx..to triger muh thooughts!!!

12:28 AM  

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